Category: Sports & Wellness

  • Axewomen split weekend road trip with tie and win

    The Axewomen soccer team settled for a 1-1 tie on the island versus the feisty UPEI Panthers. 

    On a 29th minute corner set play, Axewoman Katie Ross connected with an oncoming Candace Conrad who took it with the head, beating keeper Amanda Stanyer for the early 1-0 advantage. 

    Just two minutes later, MacVarish raced past the Acadia (1-1-1) defence and squeezed a shot past goaltender Sarah Charnock, knotting the score at one apiece.  

    Stanyer played big in net for the Panthers, especially in the second half, where she denied two Axewomen scoring threats, including a diving save in extra time to preserve the 1-1 draw. 

    The Axewomen out-shot the Panthers 14-3. 

    In their second game of a two-day road trip, the Axewomen hand the Mount Allison Mounties their fourth loss of the 2017 season.   

    Acadia took control early in the game with their speed and smart decisions. Katie Ross of the Axewomen scores the first goal, followed by a header by goal by Emily Nickerson, to commence the second half with a 2-0 lead over the Mounties.  

    Acadia’s Jenna Howell scored early in the second half, giving the Axewomen a 3-0 lead and locking in the win for the Axewomen.  

    The Axewomen improve to 2-1-1, while the Mounties will continue a search for their first win of the early AUS season. Acadia will head to Cape Breton for a one game road trip on Friday versus the Capers and then return on Sunday to host the Moncton Aigles Bleus starting at 1:00 p.m. 

  • Axewomen rugby improve to 2-0 with 77-7 win over Huskies

    (HALIFAX, NS)—The Saint Mary’s Huskies dropped their home opener 77-7 Sunday afternoon at Huskies Stadium to the Acadia Axewomen in Atlantic University Sport rugby action.  

    In a game marred by handling errors, the AUS conference runners-up last season, sprinted out to a 34-7 halftime lead before second-half scores of 49-7, 54-7, and the final try at 77-7. 

    Acadia wasted little time getting on the board when second year prop Emma Pfleiderer rumbled over the try line to give Acadia an early 5-0 lead, less than 5 minutes into the game.  

    Natasha Johnson (2), Annie Kennedy, Tamara Dondi and Danielle Wisen also all scored in the first half, while SMU scored a lone converted try from Julie Naugler (converted by Elisn Redshaw) for a 34-7 halftime score. 

    Acadia wasted little time getting to work in the second half.  Laura Pfleiderer, Sophie Pickard and Tamara Dondi all scored for Acadia within the first 10 minutes of the frame.   

    Harley Tucker and Monique Coffey added second half trys after several hard runs that had the Huskies scrambling to reset their defence.  Tamara Dondi, Danielle Wisen and Laura Pfleiderer scored second try’s in the second half and Laura Pfleiderer added 4 second half conversions.  

    “It is a difficult thing to be critical when you win by 70 points, but we did a lot of little things poorly today.  Encouragingly, our team recognizes how poor we were at times and they are as frustrated as the coaching staff, which is encouraging.  I was really pleased with some of the performances today, but some people certainly didn’t put in their best efforts.  We will need to be better going forward,” said head coach Matthew Durant following the game. 

     With the win, the Axewomen improve to 2-0 and sit tied atop the AUS standings with the StFX X-Women, last year’s national champions.. Both teams return to action September 23rd when Acadia visits StFX and Saint Mary’s travels to 0-2 UPEI. Game time for both games is 2 p.m. Atlantic. 

  • Axemen pickup two wins on road trip to UPEI and Mt. Allison

    Cooper Coats’ two goal performance helped the Acadia Axemen hand host UPEI Panthers a 3-0 loss in the Axemen’s first of two game road trip. 

    “I don’t know what it is about this place,” said Coats, who returned from injury and played in his first game of the season. “It’s a great start for me, but I really think the lads are going to benefit from this win and bounce back after a tough opening weekend.” 

    “This win was very important,” said Axemen head coach Findlay MacRae. “There’s no room for error in this league and dropping points while all these teams pick them up is tough.” 

    In desperate search of their first win, it didn’t take long for the Axemen to make an impact. Just four minutes in, Travis Fenning came in from the left side, dribbled his way past defenceman Ben Keefe and fired a shot past Brett Strba in the top right corner. 

    At halftime, Coats got the nod from his coach and immediately made his presence felt. On a set play in the 51st minute, Coats redirected a volley from his teammate and headed it past the goaltender for the 2-0 advantage. 

    The Axemen added the third and final goal at the 73rd minute, when Coats skipped a shot past the Panther keeper for his second goal of the match in the 3-0 victory. 

    In the second of a two-game weekend on the road, the Axemen hit the ground running with an early 3-0 lead in the first 20 minutes of the game against the host Mount Allison Mounties.   

    The Mounties eventually settled into the game and senior Jaryd Morrissey scored his first goal of the season and his first of two goals in the 28th minute taking the teams to halftime.   

    The scored remained 3-1 until the 58th minute.  First year Axeman Coleman Hooper added two goals shortly after the 58th minute. Morrissey netted his second and final goal for the Mounties. 

    Zach Visser, Cooper Coats and Hooper again added goals for an 8-2 final. Hooper notched a hat-trick, while teammate Cooper Coats had two goals. 

    The Axemen head to Cape Breton this Friday evening for a single game against the Capers and then return home to host Moncton on Sunday, September 24 starting at 3:15 p.m. The Mounties remain winless and Acadia improves to 2-1-1. 

  • Fan Post: Ben Scrivens

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    If you’re a fan of the Maple Leafs, chances are over the past few years you’ve noticed quite a few roster changes. In fact, you’ve more than likely seen your favorite players walk away in droves. Names, such as Joseph, Sundin, and most recently Kessel have become synonymous with the mediocrity of a team that came close— but could never quite get there. It hurts a little more than most of us are willing to admit. 

    Thankfully, the 2015 announcement of a “scorched earth” rebuild turned heads league-wide, and helped give rise to the optimistic situation the Leafs are sitting in today. 

    As we patiently await the close of a seemingly never ending off-season, I would like to shine some light on a former Leafs — or fallen Leaf, who’s pieces simply did not fit into the ever-growing puzzle management is assembling. 

    Ben Scrivens 

    Scrivens’ journey with the Maple Leafs began in 2010 when he was signed as a free agent out of Cornell University of the ECAC. 

    Once settled with his new club—Scrivens found himself competing with former Leafs goalie, James Reimer for the Marlies back-up goalie position. Ultimately, this was a battle that Scrivens lost, and he was sent to play a short stint with the Reading Royals of the ECHL. 

    After an injury to Jonas Gustavsson propelled Reimer to a pro spot, Scrivens was promoted to the Marlies, where he finished off his season posting a .924 save percentage, and progressed to .926 the following season. Enough to earn him a call up towards the end of 2011-12. 

    Scrivens made his NHL debut against the Columbus Blue Jackets on Nov 4, 2011— a contest in which he pulled off a 4-1 win while being outshot 39-18. He then finished the season going 4-5 posting a mediocre .902 save percentage. 

    After starting the 2012-13 season with the Marlies, Scrivens returned to the Maple Leafs lineup for 20 more games, backing up James Reimer. Finishing the season with a respectable save percentage of .915 it seemed as if Scrivens might finally secure the Leafs back-up position, and avoid yet another stint in the AHL. However, during the 2013 off-season, Scrivens was traded to the LA Kings, alongside Matt Frattin, and a second round pick, in exchange for future Leafs goalie Johnathan Bernier. 

    In the 2 years following the trade, Scrivens was bounced from the Kings, to the Oilers, and finally to the Canadiens— where his NHL career came to a pause. After finishing the 2015-16 season, Scrivens decided to take his talents overseas, signing a one year deal with Dinamo Minsk of the KHL.  

    Instead of being stuck on the AHL/NHL cusp yet again, Scrivens became the undisputed number one goaltender for Minsk, starting a whopping 55 games out of a 60 game season. 

    In his single season with Minsk, Scrivens went an impressive 28-18-8, finishing with a fair save percentage of .918. His ability to start, and keep up with the puck game after game was a key contributor to Minsk finishing 1st in the Bobrov Division. 

    While his regular season play was impressive, his playoffs didn’t quite follow suit. 

    Dinamo Minsk began their playoffs in the 5th seed, against Maxime Talbot, and the 4th seed Locomotiv— a team that also featured former Leaf Brandon Kozun. 

    Minsk struggled to keep up with a very effective Locomotiv team, winning only a single game in the series before exiting in the first round for a 3rd year in a row. 

    While Scrivens can’t be blamed for the entire collapse, his performance was quite underwhelming, allowing 16 goals in 5 starts while maintaining an underwhelming .896 save percentage. 

    While I have no doubt Ben Scrivens will crawl his way back into the NHL one of these days, it will not happen this season. The 30 year old netminder will continue his pursuit of the Gagarin Cup this season with Salavat Yulaev. 

     

  • Fog Off

    Nolan: Hello Alex, thank you for joining me today. Would you mind telling us a little about yourself?

    Alex: Thank you for taking the time to talk to me. I am a third-year sociology honours student, and I am a Brand Ambassador for Fog Off Clothing Company. I am a proud Maritimer, and I find it hard to describe myself on the spot [laughs].

    Nolan: Good thing I know a thing or two about you. Can you tell us more about Fog Off?

    Alex: Fog Off is an Atlantic Canadian clothing brand that started in 2014. Fog Off donates ten percent of their sales to the Mental Health Association and/or Mental Health Foundation in each province. They are not just using their brand to create discussion and change surrounding mental health, but their goal is also to give back to the cause.

    Nolan: How long have you been a Brand Ambassador for Fog Off?

    Alex: I have been an Ambassador since February.

    Nolan: Good for you. Do you mind elaborating on the company’s mission statement?

    Alex: Sure. Fog Off is trying to send a message that everyone can relate to. We all have mental health, and we all struggle with our mental health at some point in our lives. Fog Off defines this as a ‘Mental Fog,’ which may include stress, depression, anxiety, bullying, sickness, addiction – you name it. If we are not struggling, we know someone who is. The goal is to spread the message that ‘no one has to walk along a foggy path alone, but also that fog eventually lifts’.

    Nolan: This sounds like a wonderful cause. How can we get involved or help contribute?

    Alex: Well, I believe that a major part that everyone can help with is creating discussion. I will say that overall, Acadia students are doing well in this respect. Sharing individual stories with each other is a major part of that discussion, and you can always share your experiences anonymously if you are uncomfortable speaking your mind. Fog Off Clothing donates ten percent of their sales to mental health initiatives, and I strongly suggest checking out their website to see their products online, or at their partner store Psudio.

    Nolan: That sounds wonderful. What is the website address, and what type of products are available for purchase?

    Alex: The website is www.fogoffclothing.com, and they have everything from anchor bracelets, to doggy bandanas, sweaters, t-shirts, car decals, toques, and lots of other awesome products. On their website, they also have a link to the story behind the brand, and the associations, foundations, and societies that they support. Also, if you make a purchase online, you can receive 10% off your purchase by using my promo code: Pulchny001.

    Nolan: Would you mind sharing your experiences with mental health and why you wanted to get involved with Fog Off?

    Alex: Sure, when I was younger I never understood the concept of mental health. I thought that you only had mental health if it was something that you struggled with. As I was growing up, I watched my sister go through some tough times with her mental health, and it made me weary of talking about my own. I was afraid that if I was open about it, I would be labelled and people would treat me as such. I still find labels hard to deal with which is why I got used to bottling up my emotions. Now that I understand the concept of mental health better, although it is still difficult to talk about my feelings, I can now discuss them with a handful of my peers. When I heard that Fog Off Clothing was in search of Brand Ambassadors, I jumped at the chance. Acting as a Brand Ambassador has provided me with a medium to discuss mental health and help end the stigma surrounding it. The opportunity also provides me with the chance to meet people who are open to discussing mental health and their experiences may be similar to my own. If they have different stories it broadens my perspective on the topic. The Ambassadors are all extremely supportive of each other, which makes it a great community.

    Nolan: Thank you for sharing that. I too used to have a misunderstanding, if you will, of the concept of mental health. I too realize now that mental health impacts us all, and that labels can be discouraging to some. What advice do you have for anyone who finds it difficult to discuss their mental health, and struggles with the concept of mental health labels?

    Alex: It is hard to give advice on mental health in a general sense, but I will say that it is important to find someone who you can be open with. It took me a long time to find somebody who I was able to discuss my struggles with. Labels are tricky because sometimes they help people find who they are and how to deal with a situation, and other times it may create a larger self-struggle. For myself, I know that I have anxiety, but I also know we all have differing levels of anxiety. To be physically labelled as having anxiety would make it more difficult to cope with it. It would be like introducing myself as ‘Hello, I am anxiety’. Take any label with a grain of salt because you are the only one who can implement your label. You are who you want to be. If someone puts a label on you, you can choose to say: ‘I am not that label, but thank you – I am human. I may experience the label, but I am not the label’.

    Nolan: Thank you for sharing. I have battled labels, and previously written an article discussing my opinion on the matter, and it is refreshing to have a perspective from the other side. I find labels empowering, and I am glad that the readers can hear someone else’s story on the matter. Is there anything more you would like to share?

    Alex: Just one more thing, on the topic of sharing your experiences and what you are going through: we have some great resources on campus including the Mental Health Society, counselling services, and the Acadia Women’s Center, and I am certain that although they may be strangers, they are here to listen and support you. Sometimes, it feels better to talk to a stranger.

    Nolan: Thank you again for sharing your story.

    Alex: It was great to have the opportunity to share my story and talk about an amazing clothing company.

  • Orthorexia: How Clean Eating Ruined My Life

    Orthorexia: How Clean Eating Ruined My Life

    Two years ago on his birthday, my father suffered a heart attack. He thankfully survived and began his recovery journey with confidence and determination. Part of this recovery included a complete change in diet, and to show my support I took on the challenge with him. For the last two years, I have been participating in ‘clean eating’ and it has changed my life. So much so that I am writing this the day after I came home from a stay in the hospital.

    Beginning a healthy lifestyle was one of the hardest things I ever did in my life. But I stuck with it and was so proud of myself for doing so. The better I ate, the better I felt. Instead of being addicted to junk food, I became addicted to healthy food and feeling good about myself. Of all the things a person can become addicted to, feeling good about oneself is a pretty good option. Right? That’s what I used to think. Now I know that an addiction is an addiction no matter how it’s dressed up. Clean eating started out very innocent with me. I only wanted to support my Dad and live a healthier life. The more I practiced clean eating, though, the more obsessed with it I became. The way I felt about myself slowly started to become dependent on what food I ate in a day, and I started to develop a very strict way of eating. Eating healthy wasn’t a choice anymore. It was a necessity. Eight months ago, I ate one Reese’s peanut butter cup in a moment of weakness and felt terrible about it. I felt so ashamed that I contemplated suicide. Even though I clearly did not go through with that, I still decided that I needed to be punished. If I eat badly then I am bad, and bad people deserve punishment. That was the night that I started harming myself. This became a cycle: clean eating, minor slip up, punishment, repeat.

    My Dad’s birthday was earlier this week, and my Mom invited the whole family to the house for a celebratory potluck. The entire drive there I was doing everything in my power to keep myself from having a full-blown anxiety attack. Now, as far as group dinner go, potluck is probably the best style for somebody like me. There are plenty of options for me to still eat clean; especially since I bring at least 3 different dishes with me. What I feared were the two things that my family knows I can’t resist: ice cream cake and red wine. Knowing my family, I would be talked into having at least one of those options. So, I made it through dinner fine, skipped out on the cake because I was “just so full from dinner still”, and things were looking great. Then my sister brought out a glass of wine handed it to me and informed me that she had made it herself so I just had to try it. It was good. So good that I had three more glasses. This lead me to possibly one of the biggest mental breaking points I have ever had. My Mom found me a few hours later in the bathroom with blood on the floor from one of my punishments. She took me to the hospital where I spent three days being evaluated, questioned, and finally released after agreeing to see a therapist and a dietician on a regular basis.

    Healthy eating is fantastic. Active living is also highly beneficial. But there really is such a thing as too healthy. I took it to a level of extreme that should never have been reached. I took it to the level of orthorexia.  The scary part is that on the surface, everything looked fine. I just looked like a normal girl who lived a “healthy” lifestyle. But on the inside, I was falling apart. Now it’s my turn on the road to recovery.

     

     

  • The Silent STI and I: Together for Nearly Three Years

    The Silent STI and I: Together for Nearly Three Years

    A close friend of mine was worried that she had picked up an STI recently, but was too scared to get tested because she didn’t know what to expect. So I volunteered to be the guinea pig for her and get tested first, because why not? Solidarity for my sister! So, I walked into the clinic feeling confident that I was clean and could report back to my friend what to expect from the test and that chances are she was clean, too. It turns out that she was worried for no reason, because she came back STI free. I, however, did not. They told me I had chlamydia.

    Given that chlamydia is one of the most commonly spread STIs, especially among people my age, this shouldn’t have been a shock statistically speaking. Especially since, most of the time, there are no shown symptoms. But, it was. Full disclosure: I haven’t had sex in almost three years. It’s been quite the dry spell, I know. So, you can imagine my surprise when sexually inactive, sexually frustrated, sexually deprived me got the news that I had an STI. Like a television show cliché, I told the nurse that she must be mistaken. She went on to explain to me that, as far as STIs go, chlamydia is easily treatable and will be gone in no time. One dosage of medication and I would be cleared up. I then explained to her my situation, and there was a terrible moment of silence and then “how soon can you come in for a follow up?”. You bet your ass I was sitting in the waiting room the very next morning.

    You see, chlamydia really is easily treatable. It’s when it isn’t treated where things can get complicated. Chlamydia has the potential to spread and infect other parts of the female reproductive system, sometimes causing pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). Which, by the way, is also potentially asymptomatic as well. As luck would have it, living with chlamydia for nearly three years is a sure way to get PID. The only symptoms I can recall experiencing were abdominal pains, and lets face it, it needs to take more than that to get any of us to believe that something more than normal lady cramps is happening in there. So here I am, writing to you facing the very real possibility that severe damage to my reproductive organs has already happened enough to prevent me from becoming pregnant or living without random spasms of pain. Here I am, telling you the very real possibility that many reading this article have Chlamydia and don’t even know it. Do yourself and your partner(s) a favour and get tested.

  • Casual Sex: Ain’t No Shame, Do Your Thing

    After reading headlines such as “Links in Mental Health and Hooking Up” and “Is Casual Sex Hazardous to Your Mental Health?” I have concluded that, based on the popular idea that women with poor self-esteem partake in casual sex more often than others, a lot of people probably think I’m extremely depressed. I’ve often been warned to slow down on my sexual endeavours. My personal favourite is when somebody hits me with “no self-respecting woman would sleep around like you do.”

    Here’s the thing about self-respect: it’s a personal thing. That’s where the word “self” comes into play. I can be sexually promiscuous and still respect myself. If you wouldn’t respect yourself if you were sexually promiscuous, then that is fine. But that is also your own prerogative and has nothing to do with me. I could sleep with hundreds of people and still respect myself. In fact, I could sleep with that amount of people and even respect myself more than somebody who has slept with 3 people. There is no way to find out for sure, though, because self-respect varies from person to person and it is no one else’s place to define it for you.

    The above headlines, and many like them, are not asking the right questions. It should not be a matter of whether somebody has casual sex, but rather about why somebody has casual sex. The act itself cannot determine anything about your mental health, values, or self-respect. It goes much deeper than that (pun intended). So, why do I have casual sex? Simply because I want to. I shouldn’t need to explain myself, nor should I need any other reason than that. I want to, I like it, I enjoy it, and exploring my sexuality is one of my favourite things to do. I am not ashamed of this. These are all valid reasons for having sex. Moreover, these are all autonomous motives. When somebody has non-autonomous motives for hooking up, the affects could be damaging. This is where mental health comes in.

    There are plenty of people out there who use casual sex as a tool (pun intended again) in their mental health. I know women who use casual sex to feel better about themselves. I know men who use casual sex to fit in with masculine standards. I know people who use casual sex as a distraction from what is really going on in their lives, who use it to fill the loneliness in their lives, and who use it because they do not have any self-worth without it. This is damaging and yes, this is a cause for concern. Mental health issues and casual sex often feed of each other and can become a cyclical experience. If you feel as though you are only engaging in casual sex to feel something other than pure enjoyment of sex, then I urge you to explore the real reasons behind your actions and take steps to better your life. You’re worth more than you think.

    But if you have casual sex just for the hell of it, then keep on doing you (and others). I’m not saying that casual sex and mental health aren’t connected, because there are multiple studies that prove otherwise. What I am saying is that this is not the standard that casual sex and the people who engage in it should be reduced to. A lot of us are self-respecting, mentally healthy, sexually active beings. It’s okay. It is normal. Whatever you personally decide is normal for yourself is exactly what normal is, and no one else should be shaming you into thinking otherwise. But they will. Keep your head up high, your sex drive even higher, and show the world exactly how you respect yourself.

     

  • I Like Sex as Much as the Next Guy

    I have a hard time wrapping my head around why so many people almost go into shock when they hear me, a heterosexual female, openly talk about sex. Whether it be talking about having sex or things I enjoy during sex, the look on their faces is just sheer and utter appalment. It’s like they can’t believe that a woman of my age and relationship status is having sex and is willing to engage in open discourse about it.  Newsflash people: if a heterosexual or bisexual male talks about having a hook up or a friends-with-benefits with someone, there is generally going to be female counterpart.

    I guess I kind of understand the initial shock that comes with hearing a female talk about sex. Males have been openly talking about their sexual encounters for decades now, whereas females have just really started embracing their “womanhood” recently. But it’s time to get over this. Feminism doesn’t just apply to equal wages or equal voting rights. It’s also about sexual freedom and that anyone, no matter what their gender is, should be able openly and equally talk about sex without experiencing any discrimination.

    Don’t get me wrong: I am not saying that the reactions people give me when I talk about sex are inherently discriminating, but it is not the same reaction many of my male peers receive when they talk about sex. Let me give you an example: I have been asked numerous times by males about my masturbation (i.e. whether I engage in it and/ or how often I do so). First off, I want to start by pointing out that it’s not their place to ask that. Yes, I openly talk about sex if I want to do so, but it shouldn’t be anyone else’s business unless I decide to share it with them (being the Student Sexual Health Worker at Acadia has made this a little bit difficult though because I often get, “I thought you were open and honest about these things”). What really gets me, though, is how guys seem to get turned on when I tell them the simple fact that I masturbate. I mean, I don’t get turned on when they tell me that they masturbate, and I understand that people have different sexual preferences, but I don’t get why they act as though it’s so surprising that I masturbate. I can only imagine how they would respond if I told them about the other sexual activities I engage in.

    This article isn’t meant to penalize males by any means. In fact, I have found that even a lot of females give me and my other sexually explicit female peers questionable glares and remarks when they hear us talk about sex. From my experience, I have been the target of “slut-shaming” by more of my female peers than my male peers. Come on, girls! We need to stick together in this. If we are fighting for equality, you have to stop being so unaccepting of behaviours of your female peers that you readily accept for your male peers.

    What I’m trying to get across is that it’s 2017: it’s about time to accept the fact that everyone, no matter their gender or sexual orientation, should be able to talk about sex without it becoming a big deal. Besides, the best way to ensure that you are having sex that you will enjoy is to talk about it; talk about your likes and your dislikes, your turn ons and your turn offs, what you are interested in trying and what is a firm “hell no” for you. Just talk about it, for… sex’ sake.

    Full disclosure: this article is written from the opinion and experiences of a Caucasian, heterosexual female, and are only my own personal thoughts. I am by no means speaking for my peers who fall into these subcategories. I just thought some people might be able to relate to what I have experienced.

  • A Demisexual Girl in a Sexual World

    When I was in grade seven, I specifically remember thinking something was wrong with me. All my friends had crushes and drooled over whichever celebrity was popular at the time. I was at a friend’s house listening to her drone on and on about how cute so-and-so is, how she couldn’t believe what’s-his-name was dating what’s-her-face, and I felt genuinely uncomfortable. Not because I thought there was anything wrong with the topics of conversation, but because I couldn’t actively participate in them. I didn’t have crushes. I mean, I knew I was supposed to have crushes, so I made them up to appease my boy crazy friends. Then one day my friend asks why I’m so weird when I talk about boys. I shrugged it off. Then the question that changed it all: “Hayley, are you gay or something?” Good question. Was I? It would explain an awful lot. So off I went to navigate the next four years of my life struggling between what I liked, who I liked, or if I liked anyone at all.

    When I entered high school, things got a little more tough. I was forced to see couples holding hands, kissing in the hallways, and giggling about who knows what. I concluded that something really was wrong with me if I truly couldn’t find myself being attracted to anyone. Could I determine if somebody was attractive? Absolutely. Was I ever attracted to anyone myself? No, I can honestly say that I wasn’t. I tried to be, and I knew I should have been, but no matter how hard I tried I could never bring myself to feel any sort of way with any sort of person. This was fine with me. And then Sarah happened. I met Sarah in one of my classes when I was 16. She had a huge personality, and made sure the entire room knew she was there. Unexpectedly she asked me if I was in to girls, to which I said “I honestly don’t know.” Two days later she asked me to be her girlfriend, and before I even knew what I was saying the word “yes” slipped out of my mouth. Was I attracted to her? No. Did I want to be in a relationship? No. Did I want to feel normal for once in my life and see if maybe I could feel attracted to somebody? Absolutely. Sarah and I didn’t have any sort of sexual contact until we were together for at least three months. She tried multiple times, and often grew irritated with me. I couldn’t explain to her why I just wasn’t into it, because I couldn’t even explain it to myself. “Maybe you just aren’t gay” is something I heard her say many times. Then I slowly found myself becoming increasingly attracted to her, and eventually I could feel and do all kinds of things with her. But this story isn’t about Sarah. That story would take far too long and be far too painful to tell. This is the story of how I figured out my sexual identity.

    So, fast forward 2 years later when I find myself newly single and back to not being attracted to anyone. That is, until a guy I’ve known forever took an interest in me, shared his secrets with me, and eventually told me that he loved me. Again, that story is far too long and far too painful to hash out for all Wolfville to see. But my experience with him was valuable in that I could finally see a pattern in my sexual attractions, or lack thereof. I explained to a close friend of mine that I seem to only ever be attracted to people who I have established a close connection with first, and that sexual attraction was completely non-existent without that pre-requisite. She turned to me and said three words that would change the way I thought and felt about myself entirely: “so you’re demisexual?”

    I had never heard this term before, so I’m assuming many readers haven’t either. Simply put, demisexuality belongs on the spectrum between asexuality (no sexual attraction at all) and sexuality. For the most part, demisexuals do not feel sexual attraction unless a strong emotional bond is first formed. This is different for every demisexual though, as each person has a different definition of what an emotional bond is. I can count on one hand how many people I have been sexually attracted to in my life, and I can guarantee that the number won’t increase by very much. Some of my friends have legitimately pitied me (Oh no! You poor thing! You don’t have sex? Like, ever?! That’s so sad, I could never imagine!), and some have claimed that I’m faking the whole thing just to have an excuse as to why I don’t have a love life. I have also been called a prude, a bitch, stuck up, and just too damn picky since I have no interest in discussing or engaging in sex. Hooking up is not for me. Lust at first sight is not my thing. Sexual arousal and I are not well acquainted. If that’s your thing, there is nothing wrong with you. But there’s nothing wrong with me either, and I’m thrilled that I can now believe that.

     

  • Not Always: A Response to Exercise Is Medicine

    Did you know that there was a study published in the US National Library of Medicine which suggests that men who play sports professionally show a higher percentage of depression? What the article concluded was that “the high ratings of depression in this group indicate that they need psychological help and that exercise is not sufficient in reducing their depression.” Not everyone is a professional athlete, but the most important part of that study is the conclusion: that the athletes needed more help. This is what happens when you treat exercise like it is a cure-all when it is clearly not. Now, in the interest of full disclosure, the study had a relatively small sample size of twenty individuals. However, this doesn’t disprove the fact that exercise clearly doesn’t help decrease anxiety or depression in everyone, and these people should not be told that it does as it may prevent them from choosing other methods of assistance.

    I am well-versed in mental health due to a detailed history with it. I take anxiety medication for my panic disorder. Anyone who knows anything about medication treating mental illness knows that medication is not a magic pill. Medication helps the patient achieve neutrality. One must also take personal steps and coping mechanisms toward maintaining recovery in mental health. If someone said that their medication wasn’t working for them, the doctor doesn’t tell them that they are not taking it properly. They attempt to help them find a medication or a new dosage that works for them.  Who would force someone to take a medication that doesn’t work for them or makes them feel worse? In fact, the first thing they tell you when you take medication is that you should report to a doctor immediately if your anxiety or depression gets worse. If you are determined to view exercise as a medication, of which I have no problem, you need to follow the rules. Medication is not a cure all. That is, you wouldn’t prescribe Adderall for liver cancer, or Valium for depression. We can see that cannabis oil can help with some of the cancer side effects, but we would never use it in place of chemotherapy. Even more specific, I use Celexa brand Citalopram for my anxiety, but another anxiety medication like Xanax doesn’t work for me because it gives me migraines.

    First, calling exercise a “hugely under-recognized and under-utilized tool” Is laughable. Exercise is good for your body. That’s a commonly known fact. I don’t understand where these people pushing exercise like an unacknowledged cure for everything are getting the idea that nobody knows this fact. Exercise is good for obesity, diabetes, and high blood pressure? Who knew? As far as exercise helping chronic conditions goes, I followed that citation to a government site, where they state it almost word for word, and that government site got that information almost word for word from a study done by Statistics Canada, a government statistics site that got their information from a study done by the Pennington Biomedical Research Center and the Canadian Fitness and Lifestyle Research Institute.

    The reason I went so far to find the direct place the information came from is because each time this information was used they conveniently worded it so that it sounded like it lowers the risk of you getting a chronic illness. The original study was that it lowered the risk of you dying from a chronic illness, because the subjects already had chronic conditions when they were studied. It’s not exactly groundbreaking information that if you have a chronic heart condition, you will live longer if you exercise. If you are sitting there thinking that I’ve misunderstood the term ‘exercise’ and that articles like these are only pushing daily light fitness, which is healthy for everyone, then you need to read the study that was being referenced because it suggests much more than moderate exercise as treatment. In other words, we aren’t talking about keeping up with a long walk or a few sit ups in the comfortability of your own home.

    Second, if you are sitting thinking that we need to push exercise because high rates of obesity and mortality from chronic conditions prove that we don’t understand the benefits, you are misinformed. Let me enlighten you. I have anorexia nervosa, I am in recovery, and I am doing very well. However, I am often told by those who don’t understand or know about my illness that I should exercise to feel better about myself every day, an hour a day. Here is the problem: exercise is very difficult for someone who suffers from an illness that focuses on body dysmorphia and over exercise. I almost starved myself to death because of my anorexia, and I constantly deal with that. Having people tell me that I’ll feel better if I exercise makes me hate myself and my body even more than I already do. I understand that exercise makes you feel better and can help people with anxiety and depression. However, my point is that there are people out there for whom this is not effective. I’m lucky if I’m able to get to the gym once a week without having a full-blown panic attack. When I do, I feel proud of myself for doing something that’s hard for me, but not for exercising. It’s not about the exercise for me. It’s about conquering something that terrifies me. Pushing exercise as this treatment that people should do every day to feel better and help their illnesses has consequences. It makes the people who take such validation from that one day they can do it and feel good about conquering that hurdle feel horrible instead of proud of themselves.

    Statistically, anorexia affects about 1% of the population and there is a 30-50% mortality rate usually because of suicide. Anorexia also forms early in life and starts out as innocent diet and exercise. I was told to lose weight by my peers, and I did. I took it too far, but what didn’t help was all the people in my life pushing diet and exercise on a teenager with horrible self-esteem issues. Not everyone who exercises develops anorexia, not everyone exercise to lose weight or because they feel pressured to do so. But the ones who do have it for life are in treatment for usually a few years. Therapy itself can take at least twelve months, and the mortality rate is high. Saying that we should target kids young to help their ‘mental health’ sounds a little morbidly familiar to me.

    As for pressuring doctors to inform their patients of the benefits of exercise, I assure you that your doctor is aware. That doctor is also probably smart enough to realize that there are some conditions and individuals that would not benefit from that prescription, as with any other kind of medicine you can think of. Even if you think that promoting exercise on anyone regardless of their condition or individual experience is harmless, take the following into consideration. An individual might take a vitamin B12 supplement if they are anemic. However, even though vitamins are harmless, when an anorexic who is heavily malnourished with no body fat or very little, takes a vitamin, it does nothing because our body can’t process it. We just flush it out. So even if you won’t admit to a potential harm, there is admittedly a situation where medication of any kind just does not have an affect. It ends up not being the correct treatment for that individual. An anorexic might benefit from some B12, but that doesn’t mean that the vitamin is just magically going to work. If all you do is tell the anorexic to keep eating vitamins, they aren’t going to get any better. You’ve fundamentally misunderstood that individual’s condition.

    Anorexia is just my personal experience, but claiming that exercise is a cure-all can affect all sorts of different disorders, eating or otherwise. What if someone has chronic pain? Imagine how it would feel to have everyone telling you that you would feel better if you exercised and you are sitting there immobilized by your disease feeling like a failure because you weren’t able to get an hour a day in the gym. What if over-exercising triggers that chronic pain disease? Pushing exercise can be detrimental to someone’s mental health if they are unable to.

    I’m not trying to devalue the fact that exercise can be a very important part of recovery for a lot of people with chronic illness and with mental issues. I’m not trying to devalue it’s worth. Studies like the ones researched in the article provide important information and have important results that need to be disclosed in their entirety. If you have a mental illness or chronic disease or disorder and you find that exercise helps, then I am not trying to say that you shouldn’t exercise. I’m not trying to say that anyone shouldn’t exercise, I’m just trying to say that if you can’t (and many can’t), articles like these are hard to deal with. And I certainly don’t agree with the notion that we should be pushing it on people and pressuring people to exercise as treatment for mental illness. Even if you know that it shouldn’t be pushed on every individual as a cure all type treatment, when you issue blanket statements like the one that the “Exercise is Medicine” article (and many like it) has made, it’s still a problem. I feel it comes from a place of misinformation and misunderstanding and doesn’t fully consider the consequences of what it’s suggesting. This is especially true since no article I’ve come across about the pro-exercise is medicine stance seems to contain a qualifier that acknowledges the many people like me who find this difficult.

    I think exercise is great, it makes me feel good about myself and I have fun doing it when I am physically and mentally able to. I want to exercise, but it’s extremely difficult for me to do it, and it’s even harder when I constantly feel like a failure when I’m unable to, and pushing exercise as a cure all magic pill makes it feel like I’m not trying hard enough. I am trying, and I’m proud of myself. But articles like this make me feel much less proud of myself. I’m not writing this response for the people who believe pushing exercise as treatment like a cure all without knowing the facts is a good idea. I’m not trying to argue with you, and I’m not going to. I’m writing it for the people who read that article and, for whatever reason, are unable to exercise regularly. If you are suffering from a mental illness or chronic illness or whatever else and you have a hard time going to the gym, or even going outside, I understand what you’re going through. I understand how hard it is. I understand the pressures you face and the way articles like these make you feel. Your feelings are valid; I feel them too. Regardless of whether you have trouble or not, you are doing the best you can. You are trying your hardest. You are not a failure because this is difficult for you. You should be commended for how far you’ve come and the hurdles that you’ve crossed. I’m proud of you, and you should be proud of you too.

     

     

     

  • What’s in a Name? Racism: A Response.

    This is in response to the article in the last issue titled “Unpopular Opinion: Controversial Team Names Aren’t All That Controversial.” In short, I call bullshit.

    I appreciate the fact that you, Anonymous writer, would rather see more productive means of protest that doesn’t involve boycotting games. This I can agree with. I understand that you feel as though the controversial team names in question are honouring the Native people. Not only are you wrong about this, but perpetuating this idea is dangerously ignorant.

    You may be thinking that something as simple as a team name or their mascot cannot possibly promote racist ideologies. It’s all in good fun, right? Wrong. Take the Washington Redskins for example. Do I even have to go further with this explanation? “Redskins” is a term used to refer to the scalps that were collected for bounty. Scalps were literally taken off the heads of Native people and sold off like a trendy pelt. Over time the term developed to literally mean ‘person with red skin,’ aka Indigenous people. Does this development make the term more acceptable? No. It is completely degrading and one of the most grotesque terms available. So, how are the Washington Redskins showing respect and honour as you so eloquently point out? This isn’t an homage. It’s a reminder of social hierarchy. It’s making a joke out of our Indigenous peoples, where the punch line is the acceptance that people like yourself feel towards this issue.

    If you still don’t believe that team names can promote racism, take a look at some of the headlines that have appeared over the years: “Scalp ‘em, oh wonderous Redskins” (Chicago Sun Times, 1987) “Hartley Claims Redskins’ Scalp” (The Mirror, 2000), and most recently “Red Robins Scalp Indians in Solid GNC 6-0 Shutout” (Antigo Daily Journal, 2017). These are only three examples of many more. Now that we have established that racism does exist, let’s turn our attention to cultural appropriation.

    Have you ever seen a Braves game? The “Tomahawk Chop” is a fan favourite that involves swinging a foam tomahawk and participating in a “rallying cry” that is supposed to replicate what these people think a Native one would sound like. The Kansas City Chiefs will also say that they are honouring Indigenous people, and yet they encourage stereotypes. They play at Arrowhead stadium, sport a logo of an arrowhead, and have a horse mascot named Warpaint. The fans are often seen wearing head dresses, and yell out war cries for their team. The Cleveland Indians, besides having a name that is well known as a derogatory term, have an incredibly racist mascot named Chief Wahoo. But I suppose you feel as though Indigenous people should feel honoured to be made fun of, because at least they get some recognition, right? What you are really saying in your article, dearest Anon, is that we should be grateful for any kind of representation we can get in this world, even if it’s offensive. What you are saying is that you can still take and take and take from us, and there isn’t anything we can do about it. We are not your mascots. We are not your property, and we sure as hell aren’t going to sit here and accept it like you want us to do.

  • Canadian NHL Teams Comeback from 2016

    The 2016 Stanley Cup Playoff games were a disappointment to Canadians everywhere as none of the Canadian NHL teams moved on to compete for the Holy Grail of hockey. It was only the second time in Stanley Cup history where this happened, the first time being in the 70’s. This time around, the Canadian teams are undoubtedly feeling the pressure to at least qualify for the postseason games. The question on everybody’s mind is how many teams, if any, will represent our country in the 2017 Stanley Cup Playoffs?

    So far, so good! 2017 is looking promising for Canadian hockey, and I’m happy to say that last year’s disappointment will not happen again. The teams sitting in playoff positions are the Montreal Canadiens and the Ottawa Senators, currently sitting at first and second place respectively in the Atlantic division. Sitting third in the Pacific division, the Edmonton Oilers can also see playoffs in their future. The Calgary Flames are even incredibly close to a wildcard position. This is not surprising, not for me at least. But let’s look at something that is: the Toronto Maple Leafs.

    As it currently stands, the Leafs are currently 4th in the Atlantic division trailing by a measly 3 points behind Boston who are current playoff position holders. This makes the Leafs 3rd on the wildcard list, where only the top two teams from each conference will move on to the playoffs. The Leafs are 3 points behind Philly for one of the wildcard spots. I repeat, the Toronto Maple Leafs are 3rd on a list that accepts the top two and 4th on a list that accepts the top 3. Is 2017 their chance? The energy that the Leafs have been putting out this season has shocked some, and confused few. In my opinion, the team has improved greatly, especially in terms of defense. But will that be enough to snag a spot in postseason? Unlikely. But then again, stranger things have happened on the ice.

    After the catastrophe of having no Canadian teams qualify for the Stanley Cup games, having three currently secured playoff spots and two teams inching closer and closer to wildcard slots is something to celebrate. This is Canada’s game, so let’s take it back.

  • Fashion Forward: Mental Health Message Behind Clothes

    It all began with a hand stitched shirt that reads “keep me high, love.” Now, there are seven products to choose from all bearing the message that it is okay to put yourself first. What makes this company stand out from the rest? The founders use their platform to open engaging, encouraging, and supportive messages about mental health through their products.

    Me Before You Clothing Co. is new to the fashion scene of Nova Scotia, but co-founders Vanessa Hamkens (Dalhousie) and Rhiann MacDonald (Acadia) have big plans for their forward-thinking company. Their goal is to “raise awareness about mental health by spreading positivity and curbing the stigma around it,” as said on the Me Before You website. Themes of self-care and self-love are central to the clothing designs, but Hamkens and MacDonald are aiming even higher. The duo is giving back to the community, contributing a portion of sales to local charity initiatives.

    An embroidered yin-yang symbol hovers above the word “balance” on one of the products, a black crew neck sweatshirt. This product is a part of one of the commitments that Me Before You Clothing Co. has taken on with a portion of each sale going towards Feed Nova Scotia, an organization that strives to reduce the food insecurity that many Nova Scotians experience. According to Feed NS, food insecurity has resulted in a dramatic increase of food bank users all across Canada. Specifically, in Nova Scotia, the 2016 statistics show a surge of approximately 20% compared to the previous year. Compared to 2008, Nova Scotian food bank usage increase by upwards of 40%. While Feed NS isn’t a mental health initiative, it is certainly related.

    Most recently, Me Before You Clothing Co. made a special release on Bell Let’s Talk Day with a specific person in mind. Sold at the Halifax Forum during the Saint Mary’s versus Dalhousie Bell Let’s Talk hockey game, the limited-edition shirts sported a fox on the front and words that read “Fox 12” on the back. A portion of the sales were put towards the Cayley Fox Memorial Award of Saint Mary’s University, an award established to commemorate the SMU student and rugby player who struggled with mental health issues. After shirts were sold out, $1000 of the proceeds were raised for the award. Upon announcing this on their Facebook page, Me Before You encouraged to “keep the conversation going although Bell Let’s Talk has ended. Share stories of Cayley and others who are struggling even if they are smiling”.

    So, what is next for the new entrepreneurs? “Right now we currently only have the Feed NS and Cayley Fox Memorial Award donations happening and that’s where our focus is for the next few months,” Me Before You commented. But the future holds even more opportunities for the clothing line. “Moving forward we are planning on creating new clothing items to partner with a donation to specific organizations or funds that align with our goals.”

    Using creative outlets to combat mental health stigma has recently been more prominent in Canadian universities. An art project titled “Ventilation Movement” from Erin Chapman of the University of Ottawa made headlines in 2016 for the innovative way in which the project allows for people to vent about their struggles. Another Maritime clothing line, Wear Your Label, created by two UNB students sends the message that it isn’t selfish to practice self-care. Hamkens and MacDonald hope to contribute to this important discussion with their own clothing line by, as stated in their mission statement, “starting a conversation about self care and self love, with our name ‘Me Before You Clothing Co.’ prompting you to put yourself first and take care of your own needs.” Me Before You Clothing Co. is open to new ideas of community outreach, and encourage those with interest to contact them.

     

  • Unaware and Undiagnosed: Common Symptoms of PCOS

    After years of intense pain, dramatic weight gain, and missed periods, I sat in the doctor’s office for what seemed like the billionth time trying to explain my symptoms to her. “It sounds like you have polycystic ovarian syndrome,” she informed me.

    The months following included ultrasounds, even more pain, and one specialist informing me that if I just “lost the weight” then all my PCOS problems would be solved. For those of you who have never heard of this illness before, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (or PCOS) is a hormonal condition where cysts grow on the ovaries and where there is a drastic imbalance of hormones. Although these cysts are relatively harmless, the side effects that come from them are not. Having polycystic ovaries could mean the development of issues such as infertility, cancer, heart disease, and stroke. PCOS effects approximately 10% of females, but many go undiagnosed because they don’t know what to look for. The lack of awareness of PCOS has the potential to be life threatening. So, from somebody who has the unfortunate experience of cysts growing on her inner egg cartons, here are some of the signs to watch for.

    Irregular Menstrual Cycle

    An irregular menstrual cycle is the top symptom of PCOS. Most females with the illness have fewer than 8 periods in a year, and some people don’t have any at all. I can remember a time when I didn’t have a single cycle for two years. While some readers may be thinking that I’m lucky, let me assure you that I am not. Missing that many periods is unhealthy, and it means something is wrong with my body. It also means that the longer I go without a menstrual cycle, the more it is going to hurt when I finally have one. This may not be true for every woman with PCOS, but for me the pain is so severe that I cannot get out of bed for the first few days of my period. It is a searing, migraine inducing, incapacitating pain that is persistent and stubborn. This pain doesn’t even have to be accompanied with a menses! It can happen anywhere at anytime, regardless of cycles. Irregular cycles, especially painful ones, are big warning signs for PCOS.

    Abnormal Hair Growth and Hair Loss

    Bearded ladies are real. Rose Geil, Harnaam Kaur, and Diamond Smith are the names of females in the media who have come forward with their full beards flowing, and each of them has been given a diagnosis of PCOS. While these are extreme cases, abnormal hair growth is unfortunately a top contender for the symptoms of the disease. That isn’t to say that hair growth is abnormal, because it is a perfectly normal function of the body. What medical professionals deem as abnormal is the growth of hair on a female that would typically be seen on a male such as the face. However, it could also mean that places where hair is typically seen on a female, such as legs and arms, grows in excess. This is called hirsutism, and it affects up to 70% of individuals with PCOS. But while you may be finding an excess of hair on other parts of your body, you may find that the hair on your head is thinning and falling out. It may seem like these two phenomena are opposing, but they are linked through the overactive testosterone that comes with the hormonal imbalance of PCOS.

    Weight Gain

    Many of those suffering with PCOS are overweight or obese. At the very least, there is likely some element of struggle when it comes to weight management. According to the International Journal of Obesity and Other Related Metabolic Disorders, half of those with polycystic ovaries are overweight or obese. Why does PCOS cause such drastic weight gain? Remember, it all relates with imbalanced hormones. PCOS makes it more difficult for the body to use the insulin that is produced which typically helps transform sugars and starches into energy. If the insulin isn’t being used, it’s being stored. This alone can contribute to weight gain. The build up of insulin is said to also increase the production of a hormone called androgen, which makes it even easier to gain weight and even harder to lose it. It is an ongoing struggle that could lead to many other medical issues such as: high blood pressure, heart disease, and type II diabetes.

    Psychiatric Complications

    While there are many other symptoms associated with having polycystic ovaries, the above are the top three that most, including myself, will experience. But these symptoms aren’t the worst of it. For myself, the worst part of PCOS are the mental health complications. The most common mental health concern associated with PCOS is depression. It seems that there is a strong link between hormonal imbalance and depression. Who could have guessed? Although not all who have polycystic ovaries will develop mental illnesses, PCOS does increase the likelihood. My mood swings are often out of control. I am easily irritable, overly emotional, and sometimes I lash out when I don’t mean to. While the physical pain of PCOS is overwhelming, the mental side effects are just as bad if not worse.

    Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome is different for everyone, and my experience with it will not ring true for all who also live with it. I am not an expert in the area, and there are many other symptoms associated with the condition. The above mentioned are simply the ones that are most prevalent for myself. But one thing that I am sure of is that there is no cure for PCOS. It is a condition that I and many others must learn to live with and endure for the rest of our lives. It is painful, incredibly inconvenient, and has intruded upon my life more times than I can count. It has put me at risk for various secondary health concerns and at times, the symptoms make me feel unfeminine, unattractive, and hopeless. But I am not alone, and neither are you. So, here’s to my cyster sisters! You are strong, you are beautiful, and you are capable. If you feel as though you may be experiencing symptoms of PCOS, please speak to a health professional. While the condition is not curable, the symptoms are treatable which is the first step of preventing even more severe complications.

     

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