Tag: rape

  • Rape is Not Fornication

    A shocking decision arose at an Idaho court in early February in the sentencing of a 19-year-old man with the rape of a 14-year-old girl. After pleading guilty to charges of statutory rape, Cody Duane Scott Herrera has been sentenced to celibacy until marriage, in addition to an intensive year-long therapy program.

     

    After the initial sentencing of five to fifteen years of prison time, Judge Randy Stoker suspended his decision in favour of a one-year “rider” program instead. A “rider” program refers to the immersion of an inmate into a therapeutic program with the intention of reform. Herrera will be subjected to this therapeutic treatment, and, upon successful completion of the program, is faced with the probationary condition that he will not have sex with anybody until he is married.

     

    The judge’s final decision was made in light of Herrera’s admission to pre-sentence investigators that he had had sex with over 34 partners so far at only the age of 19. The judge reported to “have never seen that level of sexual activity by a 19-year-old,” according to Times-News.

     

    While this decision may come as shocking to many, fornication laws have been institutionalized in Idaho, in section 18-6603 of their state laws, which state that “any unmarried person who shall have sexual intercourse with an unmarried person of the opposite sex shall be deemed guilty of fornication, and, upon conviction thereof, shall be punished by a fine of not more than $300 or imprisonment for not more than six months or by both such fine and imprisonment; provided, that the sentence imposed or any part thereof may be suspended with or without probation in the discretion of the court.”

     

    This rarely enforced fornication law, added to Idaho’s Statutes in 1972, enabled Judge Randy Stoker’s restriction of Herrera, as individuals on probation cannot break any laws — fornication laws included. In Stoker’s own words: ”if you’re ever on probation with this court, a condition of that will be you will not have sexual relations with anyone except who you’re married to, if you’re married.”

     

    The judge’s controversial sentencing has been under scrutiny for its constitutional legitimacy, as it could be interpreted as infringing upon the constitutional right to procreation. As such, it is speculated that if Judge Stoker’s decision were to be appealed, it would likely not stand up in higher courts.

     

    Another concern with Stoker’s sentencing is its lack of enforceability — while probation officers are vigilant in the monitoring of their offenders’ behaviors, keeping track of their sexual activity takes that scrutiny to the next level, and will likely be very difficult to enforce.

     

    Additionally, many have criticized the judge’s decision as yet another example of the policing of sexuality in our society and as largely reflective of dominant ideas of what is normal for sex (and by extension, sexuality) and what is not. Fornication laws indicate the extent to which sexuality has been and continues to be cemented within institutionalized judicial systems, often serving to marginalize and exclude certain sexualities and sexual practices by reinforcing outdated conceptions of an “appropriate” sexuality.

     

    Critics have additionally taken Stoker’s judgment as just that: judgmental. In his decision, Stoker serves to judge Herrera based on how many sexual partners he has had and not on what he’s really on trial for: the rape of a 14-year-old girl. In his focus on how many sexual partners Herrera has had, Stoker serves to treat Herrera as the victim (of a sex problem requiring therapy) and is ultimately failing to recognize who the legitimate victim in this scenario is. Many argue that while it can be agreed that Herrera has issues with sex (as highlighted by his rape of a minor), and should seek treatment for that, that treatment should be in addition to his charges, not supplemented by them.

     

    Decisions such as Judge Randy Stoker’s highlight the myriad of ways in which sexual assault cases are built to favour the perpetrators of sexual violence over the victims. The sentencing of Herrera via fornication laws is additionally problematic as it attempts to parallel the concept of fornication with that of rape — which are not even closely comparable.

  • The Side Unseen

    There was a girl who used to look in the mirror and tell herself one thing she loved about herself every day.
    She always smiled,
    she sung in the shower
    and spent all of her hours
    comfortable in her own skin.
    She always found a reason to be alive
    even when the clouds took over her mind,
    She wrote poetry in the sky.
    Now, she stares blankly at an unrecognizable face, hating what she sees. She spends
    hours trying to scrub away the fingerprints left by the hands that took her love away,
    and she always looks down while walking through a crowd.
    But why?
    She is constrained –
    handcuffed to the essence of him
    as she paces within a cage built from her own bones,
    trying to create a safe place
    as the secrets eat away.
    There is no escaping the haunting memory,
    and he walks free.
    He grasps tightly on a failure to see
    that no means no.
    He is ignorant to the fact that even if no words are spoken at all, it still means no, and
    she could not speak so don’t try to say
    it wasn’t rape –
    it doesn’t matter what he thought it meant,
    there was no fucking consent.
    He chewed her vulnerability into pieces and spit it in her face,
    painted her in hatred,
    and scarred her body with a never-ending disgrace,
    an on-going nightmare
    that she has to encounter every time
    she sees herself in a god damn mirror.
    Instead of love,
    she feels Regret climbing up her throat as an old friend, whispering, how fucking sweet it would be to take it all away and forget.
    She exists outside of the skin
    she was given,
    outside of her temple,
    and she does not see –
    she doesn’t take notice to the sun reflecting in her eyes,
    or the dimples of her smile,
    that hold a promise of better days
    to follow,
    she does not know,
    the beauty that holds her face in its hands;
    how it has kissed her sweeter than any boy has kissed her lips before, and how it has run its fingers through her hair,
    Beauty,
    radiates from her mind.
    Every thought that has ever been her own dances in each breath she takes,
    and she sits through the night,
    crying, trying to rip off her skin
    because he made her body so difficult to exist within.
    She does not know how the stars long to hear her dream,
    how empty the sky is without her laugh.
    She does not know she is still beautiful through the continuation of self-destruction,
    that destruction is still a form of creation,
    and soon enough
    she will be brand new.
    Now, he is the reason
    She writes her poetry on her wrists.
    He is the reason she cannot wrap herself in the love she deserves as she tries to fall asleep,
    the love she needs,
    she cannot feel anything other than a constant state of empty.
    He is the reason she forgot all of the reasons she should be alive and he is the reason,
    she was never able to realize all the great things about herself that was left to count for.
    He is the reason she does not believe in love,
    not even love for herself,
    any more.

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